10. Chilean section of the website; The facts and current situation.
of its various Memoirs, Notes, Trees, etc mentioned therein, whilst I do have (but it has not yet been
added to the website) much researched information relating to the forbears of that branch of the family,
was freely and willingly provided to me by the late Robert James Powditch of Stamford, for the
purpose of undertaking further research into his family and their history and for my producing a
definitive account of same; a history of which he was ever so proud.
Furthermore, before I created any of the Chilean section, I had tried on several occasions to make
contact (phone, fax and letter) with Robert's sister (Carol E Powditch Tornero in Santiago, Chile) in
order to discuss the items with her, but due to her not replying or responding to any of my
communications, I approached Robert's UK descendants and had shown them what I was hoping to
include on the website, and it was only with their full agreement that I actually reproduced all of the
said and included Memoirs, Notes, Trees, etc, including the personal Memoirs of the late Robert
Powditch, which were vetted by them before being included; such inclusion being in their original
format, and not amended by me in any shape, form or context.
Whilst I freely acknowledge that I have not been to Chile, nor have I ever undertaken personal
research within that fine and most interesting Country (although I would dearly love to go there and
undertake research) it is true to state that past and present members of the Powditch family and
members of connected families in that country, have undertaken varying amounts of research, and it
is from their documents, papers and letters that the Chilean section of the website has been created.
In December 2003 I was contacted by email by Carol E. Powditch Tornero of Santiago, Chile, with
what can only be described as a most vociferous and vile message, the contents of which greatly
upset myself and my family, especially as the message was received on Christmas Eve (so much for
it being the season of Good will!)
Following discussions with both Ang and with Robert's son Andrew, I replied to Carol in friendship
and with love, promising to give her message attention; which is what I did on both 25 Dec 2003 and
on 8 Jan 2004, only to receive yet another nasty message on 2 Feb 2004. My emails to her of 3 Feb,
and 15 Oct 2004 (plus the Sept/Oct eNewsletter sent on 1 Nov 2004) went unanswered, or rather,
unresponded to, until two messages were sent by her on 1 January 2005 - again vociferous, vile,
nasty, and making wild accusations about me as well as besmirching my good name.
Whilst it would be the easiest thing in the world for me to put a block on all incoming emails from
Carol, I am still of the belief that everyone viewing the Powditch website is entitled to their own views,
and that I also welcome criticism - both good and bad; either way, constructive - and I believe that for
me to deny anyone their viewpoint would amount to dictatorship on my part.
Furthermore, up til the point when General Pinochet was put under house-arrest in England some
4 years ago (approx), Carol had always been so friendly towards me, and we had had lots of good
telephone conversations (sometimes an hour long), lots of letters and cards between us, as well as
a long tape-recording made by her and sent to me, and promises of lots more papers and documents
she'd be sending, and of research she was hoping to do re various members of the family in Chile, all
of which she stated that she'd send on to me. And then, following that event in England, everything
changed. I couldn't make contact with her, despite many phone calls and faxes. Cards and snail-mail
Newsletters went unanswered, as did advice to her regarding my creation of the Powditch website.
Indeed, I didn't receive any more correspondence or Christmas cards from Carol from the General
Pinochet episode onwards, and indeed, besides myself, members of her family in England were
unable to make any contact with her.
That the late Robert James Powditch (Carol's brother) had (as I said above) "freely and willingly
provided to me much researched information (relating to the forbears of the Chilean branch of the
family) for the purpose of undertaking further research into his family and their history and for my
producing a definitive account of same; a history of which he was ever so proud", fails to produce
any reason or sense in Carol's attitude to me, or to my Powditching (which incidentally, she wants
me - sorry, demands from me - to stop, and not to have a website, nor include any information on it
about any Powditch anywhere; living or deceased).
I have replied to Carol's email of 1 January 2005, although I haven't sent it direct to her, as she had
also sent her defamatory remarks about me to a third person (aagarcia@puc.cl ), so I in turn sent an
explanatory and very detailed (even if I say so myself) email to him (with the subject title being "A
different Perspective"), requesting that after he had read it he contact me; the last 3 paragraphs of
my email stating;-
"Thank you very much indeed for having read through all of the above (hope that your eyesight
isn't suffering too much?!), and as I say, I apologise for having contacted you, although through
Carol having sent a copy of her email to me, to you, you have (willingly or unwillingly) been
'dragged' into the equation, and hopefully you will be a fair and honest arbitrator - to and for both
of us.
You have my email address above, and should you require to speak to me re any of the above or
to clarify anything etc, I will willingly let you know my telephone number, or I can ring you if you'd
prefer? Anyway, I will wait until I hear further from you before I make any contact with Carol.
With kind regards, and wishing you good health and success throughout 2005, I remain,"
To date, I haven't received any form of reply from aagarcia@puc.cl (Andres Garcia at the Catholic
University of Chile) so therefore do not know what further part he has taken in the matter, but
hopefully he will reply to me very soon, and I'll then be able to respond to Carol (although she will be
receiving a copy of this eNewsletter).
One thing I haven't done so far, is to include the contents of all of Carol's emails to me, and my replies
to her, on the website itself, although in view of the defamations she has made about my character
etc, it has been something I've contemplated doing. Re the latter however, I would appreciate your
own comments on what I should - or should not - do; certainly I can send copies of the various
messages to you or to anyone else so that others can evaluate the situation.
Finally, as at today, over 36,000 persons have visited the Powditch website since it first saw the light
of day in January 2003. Of those 36,000 I have received lots of complimentary comments regarding
the layout, the quantity and quality of the site's contents, and for what I have undertaken and done for
the Powditch family both in particular and in general. Yes I have had several constructive comments,
and I have also been asked to amend several sections of the site - which I've willingly done - but I
and my family have been really hurt and wounded by the comments emanating from Carol E.
Powditch Tornero of Santiago, Chile, and would welcome comments as to what should be done about
same.
Thank you for your forbearance in reading through this item, but I do want to assure you that everything
I have done and continue to do of and for the Powditch family, for its research and for the
dissemination of all information, is only undertaken for the benefit of the family as a whole, and is not
undertaken at any charge or cost to anyone other than myself.